Equally Yoked

By Paula Williamson guest writer

We do all kinds of things, often without realizing our motives. If we asked ourselves, “What is my motivation?” it might change many of the things we do. I am ashamed to say that most of my life has been lived without that examination. When I began to do so, I realized that much of what I did was not in others’ best interests. Often, our motivation is self-serving, driven by loneliness and boredom. Those cover a lot of territory! Who we hang out with matters because we become like those we spend time with. Hanging out with those we want to become like equals growth. Hanging with those who do not encourage us to be our best self does not end well.

It Is Written

1 CORINTHIANS 15:33 Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

2 CORINTHIANS 6:14 Do not be yoked with those who are different, with unbelievers.  For what partnership do righteousness and lawlessness have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness? 

Wisdom

God has guidelines in His word that protect us from harmful relationships. I have lived long enough to tell countless stories about linking up with people we are attracted to for one reason or another. Linking up with people who do not share our goals or faith does not end well. Oh, it may be fun for a while, but the price we pay is not worth it. Here’s a free tip! When forming a new relationship, ask if you can see their Bible. Is it marked up, used, or read? If not, approach with caution. Honoring God and knowing His word make us behave differently.

Prayer

Lord, help us examine ourselves. You already know the motives of our hearts. Help us desire Your word, Your wisdom, and Your good plans for our lives. Warn us when we are headed in a direction that leads us away from Your good plans. Give us the courage to walk away from harmful relationships.

Takeaway

Be equally yoked.